After the year I experienced with Tim, and just observing men in general; I don't see anything wrong with asking for what I want. Recently, while on FB, one of m fellow group members in an IRR fiction group jokingly mentioned a "Side Bitch" contract. Seriously????!!!! My question for them was , why even have it at all? Whatever happened to being the only one? Whatever happened to Self Respect? Personally, I wouldn't even a joke about stuff like that. I don't care how cute Henry Cavill is... Even he with his gorgeous self, isn't worth the damage/humiliation that can and will result from a "Side Bitch Contract." Some women really need to get real and think about what they're posting, before they post it via Social Media.